The Chill Relationship – Chillationship (I want to experience this one)
Everywhere you look there are lovers, those who are dating, the “it’s complicated” stage, the honeymoon stage etc. But there are those relationships that you see splattered all over Facebook, those with problems or losing the love and there are those who just can’t get enough of each other. They can’t go a day without professing their love for each other with the cheesy long lines of messages full of emotional stuff.
Now, me? I want to experience the “Chill relationship” or “Chillationship.”
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How do you know that you’re in a “Chillationship”?
1.) You love each other
Well duh! You shouldn’t be in any relationship if you don’t but it’s how you are in a relationship that we’ll be talking about here.
2.) You don’t feel the need to text or be texted
You guys are mature enough for that. You two text each other if you want to, not because you have to. Yes you say I love you and stuff but not every minute of every day. Those cheesy long paragraph lines are long gone for the two of you. Yes while others find it very romantic, you two don’t feel the need to conform to what society thinks is romance. If for you, romance is saying “Don’t eat, you’re getting fat!” then that’s romance!
3.) You don’t SHARE your relationship with the world
Yes it’s fine and cute even to post a picture of the two of you with whatever message you want to write. But doing it every single time? You guys don’t feel the need for that. If you have to share your moments on social media all the time, then you’re probably not as happy as you make people think you are. Being in this Chillationship is between just the two of you. No need to be vulgar. The next thing you know, those vulgar cheesy “forever” facebook couples will break up in a couple of months.
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4.) You don’t have to force yourself to think where to go for dates
If you want to chill and stay at home, play video games and watch movies, then that’s good enough for you. No need for the countless hours of getting dressed up for another date wchich you’ve already had 2 days ago.
5.) You’ve established that trust
It’s possible actually. To trust so much and actually not have that trust broken. You just really know him/her that well that you can relax every time he/she goes out. You’re that bonded.
6.) You don’t get offended too easily
Like I said, if you get called fat by the other, then you just lovingly insult the other one. You avoid unnecessary petty fights as much as possible.
Basically, this chillationship is just enjoying between the two of you guys. No drama, No over the tops. Just chill!